{"id":51224,"date":"2026-07-10T19:34:54","date_gmt":"2026-07-10T19:34:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/poshauntie.com\/?p=51224"},"modified":"2026-07-10T19:34:55","modified_gmt":"2026-07-10T19:34:55","slug":"un-mentored-part-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/poshauntie.com\/index.php\/2026\/07\/10\/un-mentored-part-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Un-Mentored: Part 2"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Post College Internship <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The college internship was over. Now what? Get a real job, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not quite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quinn found herself working in a call center, spending eight hours a day calming down angry customers. Every conversation was timed. Every break was monitored. She had two ten-minute breaks, one thirty-minute lunch, and a script glowing on the computer screen that she could practically recite in her sleep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was exhausting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But it paid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Compared to the Mexican restaurant she worked at after moving back home, this felt like a huge step up. Her older brother, Michael, had pulled a few strings and helped her land the job so she could save money, eventually move out of his house, and get back on her feet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She was grateful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She just knew she wasn&#8217;t supposed to stay there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While reading scripted responses to strangers every day, Quinn&#8217;s mind drifted somewhere else. She imagined herself working at a fast-growing startup or a trendy marketing agency. She pictured brainstorming campaigns, launching new technology, wearing outfits she actually liked instead of a headset, and making enough money that checking her bank account wasn&#8217;t an anxiety-inducing event.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So after work, she kept networking. Tech meetups. Marketing events. Coffee chats.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anywhere people in the industry gathered, Quinn showed up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One connection eventually led her to an interview with a small agency owner named Hunter Fox.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>The interview was scheduled for 3:00 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As soon as her call center shift ended, Quinn jumped on the highway and headed downtown.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When she pulled into the parking garage, a gate stopped her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Please insert ticket.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her stomach dropped.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She didn&#8217;t have extra money for downtown parking. She grabbed the ticket anyway, silently hoping someone inside would validate it. Sometimes opportunity comes with hidden costs, and at twenty-two years old, even twenty dollars felt expensive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The elevator carried her into a sleek high-rise overlooking the city.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everything about the building felt important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>People in tailored suits hurried through the lobby carrying laptops instead of lunch boxes. Finance guys laughed over coffee. Consultants walked with purpose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quinn had barely spent any time inside corporate America, and suddenly she was standing in the middle of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She smiled to herself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Maybe I&#8217;ll meet my future husband in one of these elevators.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But first&#8230; The interview.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Hunter&#8217;s office was tucked inside another agency&#8217;s suite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As Quinn would later learn, Hunter&#8217;s business didn&#8217;t actually lease the space himself. One of his closest friends owned a much larger agency and simply let Hunter operate from a few offices inside the building.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>An agency within an agency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was Quinn&#8217;s first real lesson that success wasn&#8217;t always built alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes it was built on relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hunter greeted her with a firm handshake. Tall. Fit. Gray-haired. Confident.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He had the personality of someone who had spent decades in boardrooms and client meetings. Casual enough to make people comfortable but direct enough to let them know he expected results.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He walked Quinn through his client list.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unilever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Coca-Cola.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>National brands she had only seen in grocery stores and television commercials.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To Quinn, it sounded unbelievable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She shared her experience building websites, teaching herself digital marketing, and earning Google certifications online.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hunter nodded.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;d love to have you three days a week.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then came the catch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;I can&#8217;t pay you.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, he&#8217;d cover her monthly parking pass, office lunches, and whatever software she needed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For most people, that probably sounded like a terrible deal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To Quinn&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It felt like someone had cracked open a door that had been locked her entire life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She accepted immediately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>For the next year, Quinn lived two completely different lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By day, she answered angry phone calls in a call center.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Three afternoons each week, she transformed into an agency employee.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>An unpaid agency employee.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She helped manage social media strategies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Built presentation decks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Worked directly with vendors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Coordinated pieces of Hunter&#8217;s ambitious digital marketing conference\u2014an &#8220;Unconference,&#8221; as he proudly called it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She wasn&#8217;t observing. She was producing. Doing work that normally belonged to paid junior employees. At the time, she didn&#8217;t fully realize it. She was just excited someone trusted her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Hunter&#8217;s senior marketing manager, Aditi, quickly became one of Quinn&#8217;s favorite people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Brilliant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thoughtful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Incredibly sharp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She constantly coached Quinn on writing better emails, organizing her thoughts, and communicating like a corporate professional instead of a college student.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Those lessons would eventually become some of the most valuable skills Quinn ever learned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The two also bonded over technology, new software, marketing trends, and career ambitions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Neither of them wanted ordinary careers. They wanted financial freedom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One afternoon Hunter surprised Aditi with cupcakes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She had officially become a U.S. citizen after fifteen years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fifteen years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quinn sat quietly listening as Aditi described the paperwork, the waiting, the legal expenses, and the uncertainty she&#8217;d lived with for over a decade. It was the first time Quinn personally knew someone who had gone through the immigration process. The celebration lasted maybe thirty minutes. The perspective stayed forever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>One afternoon Hunter asked Quinn to step into his office. He had just finished his daily meditation. Quinn immediately wondered what she had done wrong. Instead, Hunter smiled. &#8220;You&#8217;re doing good work.&#8221; She relaxed. Then came the rest. &#8220;You need to improve your communication.&#8221; He explained that her emails needed to be clearer. Her writing needed more precision. Her attention to detail had to improve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At twenty-two, Quinn didn&#8217;t fully appreciate what he was teaching her. She only knew she felt embarrassed. Years later, she realized Hunter wasn&#8217;t wrong. Those communication skills became one of the biggest reasons she was able to lead cross-functional teams and executives later in her career. His feedback was hard. But it was valuable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>As Quinn spent more time around Hunter, another lesson quietly unfolded. Hunter often talked about being broke. He complained about cash flow. About clients paying late. About the stress of running a small business. Yet Quinn couldn&#8217;t ignore what she was seeing. He lived in one of the wealthiest neighborhoods in the city. His office overlooked downtown from premium real estate that had been made possible because one of his best friends owned a successful agency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>His clients included some of the biggest brands in the world. He had access, connections, relationships, and safety nets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quinn wasn&#8217;t judging him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She was noticing something she&#8217;d never had language for before. Privilege.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hunter considered himself politically liberal. And in many ways, he probably was. But Quinn also noticed something else. Almost everyone in his personal world looked like him. His friends. His professional circle. His social life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The only people of color she regularly saw were his employees or employees of his friends. It wasn&#8217;t malicious. It was simply the world he lived in. A world that called itself diverse while remaining remarkably homogeneous. For Quinn, it was another education. 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